closing out the season of the mandal debate with a few more thoughts: rayray: “why on earth is everyone so concerned about looking like a misinformed straight guy? i’m not talking about what metropolitan fashion allows, i’m talking about living in the goddamned tropics, where flip-flops are only an option if you are either a) […]

i can hardly talk about the shoes i got on friday, they are that major. everytime i look at them i gasp in shock at the perfection this man leopoldo giordano has created. this guy is so underground there is not a mention of him anywhere on the web. fortunately barneys as usual has the […]

and if i read one more online magazine/blog/opinion/column! no wait, i mean, wow. there is sooo much good stuff out there. i could read all day. some of my faves: the rabbit, moby, the aforementioned gawker, and this funny crazy man. check it out. everyone has something to say. you can make your own version […]

must-read this tidbit from the archives of the atlantic monthly . all credits to elizabeth speirs at gawker for finding and posting it. felt i must share it with my readers, it’s tenor ringing so true, even now 25 years later. i was a little seven year old who didn’t even know new york existed […]

and if i read one more online magazine/blog/opinion/column! no wait, i mean, wow. there is sooo much good stuff out there. i could read all day. some of my faves: the rabbit, moby, the aforementioned gawker, and this funny crazy man. check it out. everyone has something to say. you can make your own version […]

must-read this tidbit from the archives of the atlantic monthly . all credits to elizabeth speirs at gawker for finding and posting it. felt i must share it with my readers, it’s tenor ringing so true, even now 25 years later. i was a little seven year old who didn’t even know new york existed […]

nothing to do with shoes but, my new favorite fashion statement: hanes white ribbed men’s tank tops. soft, perfectly thin enough to wear under almost any blouse or shirt, long enough for my long torso, good for running, sleeping, or with a pair of blue cult jeans or my good, bad and ugly jean knickers […]

and auntie mary with her “seabiscuit” sandals. little black sphinx-like mules with a cute little buckle on the side. tres sexy with the cute black and white skirt! and yes, mules can be bit clumpy at times, resulting in seabiscuit-like clomping sounds as you whiz gracefully across the dance floor, but they look so good, […]